Developmental Milestones

The children have settled back into their daily routines. After four months of school, it is time to observe the developmental milestones which are being achieved by each age group.  No two children develop, grow or learn in the same way or do things at the same pace.

SOME DEVELOPMENTAL MILESTONES TO BE AWARE OF IN THE 2s:

  • they can jump, run and climb stairs

  • are starting to use 3-4 word sentences

  • often do the opposite of what is asked of them

  • learn about rules but are not able to remember them all the time

  • show affection by returning hugs and kisses

  • like pretend play

FAMILIES CAN HELP:

  • by reading stories and asking open ended questions

  • talking about things they are doing and seeing

  • being calm and comforting after a temper outburst

  • being consistent with what they can and cannot do

  • offering choices


SOME DEVELOPMENTAL MILESTONES TO BE AWARE OF IN THE 3S:

  • being toilet trained during the day, usually dry during the night

  • using 8-9 word sentences

  • pedal a trike and kick a ball

  • sometimes expresses feelings with words

  • uses imagination to create stories & play activities

  • longer attention span

FAMILIES CAN HELP:

  • going to community activities

  • giving them small chores to do around the house

  • model when to say please, thank you and sorry

  • can put away toys with some help

  • schedule appointments for teeth, hearing and eyes

SOME DEVELOPMENTAL MILESTONES TO BE AWARE OF IN THE 4s:

  • likes to play make believe

  • asks lots of questions

  • can dress themselves with some assistance

  • shares and takes turns but can be possessive of favourite toys

  • starting to understand danger

FAMILIES CAN HELP:

  • Let them make meaningful choices every day

  • give them crayons, markers and pencils so that they can practice drawing and forming letters

  • pay attention to them when they are talking

  • give them opportunities to have play dates with peers


Good vision is important for children's learning and development.  All children should see an optometrist before kindergarten.  B.C.  Medical Service Plan covers vision check-ups once a year for children under the age of 19, however some clinics have charges associated with children's eye exams.  It is a good idea to call eye clinics before scheduling an appointment to ask about costs and other services.

Find an optometrist in your area: BC Doctors of Optometry: bc.doctorsofoptometry.ca 

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